
In the introduction of this 1981 children’s book, author Betty Red Wright and illustrator Helen Cogancherry, view from the sibling’s point of view what it is like to have a special needs brother or sister. In Carlo’s case, it is his mentally retarded sister, Terry. (Note that this older picture book/children’s book uses the term “mentally retarded.”) Carlos tells us that he doesn’t always like his sister, that it “takes her a long time to learn things.” Terry is older than Carlos, yet she acts a great deal younger.

Carlos’s mother and grandmother often force Carlos to take Terry out to play with him and his friends where the other kids laugh at Terry. This never fazes Terry, but it bothers Carlos. Carlos gets criticism; Terry gets hugs.
When Carlos is told to take Terry Christmas shopping in a large department store, she gets lost, and Carlos is left almost in tears worrying about her and feeling bad he was impatient with her. Spoiler Alert: All turns out well, but Carlos leaves with a new love and appreciation for his older, “little” sister.
The book is especially handled well because it is not only on your second-to- fifth-grade-child’s level because it does not “preach.” Instead it sends across a subtle life lesson all children can appreciate.
I recommend this book as an “oldie-but-goodie.”


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